Respect
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The list of rules of how to gain and keep the respect of others came across my desk sometime ago, however these strategies are relevant today in the workplace as well as in our every day lives. Should you choose to take them as your own, success will follow no matter what career path you choose.
Be Reliable: Reliability is the cornerstone of respect. If you aren’t reliable, people will not trust you to keep your word.
Make Rapport Your Priority: Apply the Platinum Rule: Do unto others as they would have you do unto them.
Be Honest and Trustworthy: Remember the last time someone lied to you or cheated you out of money? You cannot gain the trust of others without being scrupulously honest, and trust is a component of respect.
Don’t Lie: If you don’t know the answer, admit it. Others will know when your bluffing. “I don’t know” are the words that can work to your advantage.
Listen: Use your best communication skills, especially your listening skills. Really listening to others is so uncommon that doing so will quickly move you several rungs up the success ladder.
Mind Your Manners: Recover gracefully from social gaffes. Everyone makes mistakes. So when you have put your foot in your mouth, withdraw it gracefully by simply saying “I am sorry”. Then let the matter drop.
Look Good: Dress appropriately for the occasion, the situation, the place and the people you’ll be with. Your professional image is a vital ingredient of respect.
Speak Well: Avoid bad language and inappropriate jokes at all costs. While you probably shouldn’t judge a book by it’s cover, most people do.
Don’t Gossip: Be the bearer of only good news. Leave the gossip to others who place no value on respect.
Act Assertively: No one likes a back stabber and no one respects a pushover. Opt for assertiveness. It will earn you the respect you desire.
Keep Good Company: You are judged by the company you keep. If you associate with unethical people, you will be viewed as unethical even if you are blameless.
While I believe that from the beginning of time mothers and fathers have been teaching their children to live by most of the above rules, I would like to thank the unknown author for expanding on their wisdom and bringing them into the work place. Adding respect in every action of your daily life will bring you success and pride of a life well lived.



